Healing is achieved

A great man learns from his mistakes, faults or circumstances he finds himself, so he doesn’t keep falling into that same ditch severally. That one made mistake does not mean he is a failure but when one keeps making the same mistake over and over again, it means he is not ready to be shaped. That one finds himself/herself in a circumstances does not mean he is a failure, or worthless. Mistakes and circumstances can shape us to become better persons if only we learn the lesson gotten from it and strategies ourselves to achieve greater things. Use your Mistake(s), circumstance or situations you find yourself to improve yourself and those around you. Look at those mistakes or circumstances you have found yourself in, get what you learned from them and the way forward.  The way forward is a very important step in avoiding falling into the ditch again. It’s not enough to know the way forward but you must be determined and focused to implement those strategies. I have a book...

A little child as they begin to learn how to walk falls, but they don't get discouraged, they get up and try again till they are perfect in walking. It's alright to fall, it is alright to make a mistake, it's alright to fail this does not make you a failure but what make you one is your refusal to get up and try again. Don't be too hard on yourself, don't think about the circumstances, don't dwell in that mess, mistake or failure. That you failed or made a mistake or by circumstance you find yourself in a terrible situation should not diminish or downgrade your worth. I wished I knew this earlier. Forgive yourself of those past mistake, those things you keep blaming yourself of. This was a healing step for me. I had to tell myself, that it happened, does not mean I am not important, I forgave myself of allowing those mess dominate my life. You may be wondering and saying it's not that easily. Let you tell you now, it is easy. One thing you must k...

Every man has his/her uniqueness. Our differences makes Life interesting. You were born with a unique identity. Don't crack your head trying to be like another person, don't make yourself feel unfulfilled trying to live the life others set for you. It's time to discover that special uniqueness about you and live it out, that's were life would really become interesting, satisfying and fulfilling, Living the life your creator wants you to live.

Developing oneself are strategies put in place to improve yourself physically, mentally or Spiritually. It is very essential for anyone who wants to be relevant and of great impact. This is a lifetime journey, because there is always a need to be better than yesterday which calls for continuous development of oneself. It is getting aware or increasing your knowledge and getting mastery in a particular area or subject. Our actions are tied down to the knowledge we have. Developing oneself could mean building or renewing one's self-esteem or identity. This enhances the quality of one's life and the actualization of their goals. You could learn a skill, go for training that would develop yourself, read a book. You must focus on Constant improvement. One thing is to discover your purpose, change your mindset, appreciate your uniqueness but if you don't develop yourself you would remain at the level of mediocrity. This was one area that helped me build my self-esteem...