Forgive yourself, a key to overcoming low self-esteem

A little child as they begin to learn how to walk falls, but they don't get discouraged, they get up and try again till they are perfect in walking. It's alright to fall, it is alright to make a mistake, it's alright to fail this does not make you a failure but what make you one is your refusal to get up and try again.

Don't be too hard on yourself, don't think about the circumstances, don't dwell in that mess, mistake or failure.

That you failed or made a mistake or by circumstance you find yourself in a terrible situation should not diminish or downgrade your worth. I wished I knew this earlier.

Forgive yourself of those past mistake, those things you keep blaming yourself of. This was a healing step for me. I had to tell myself, that it happened, does not mean I am not important, I forgave myself of allowing those mess dominate my life.

You may be wondering and saying it's not that easily. Let you tell you now, it is easy. One thing you must know is that we are humans and are prone to mistake, once this is in your subconsciousness, it would be easy. You may have said I fell so cheap for that guy, he just used me and dump me, my sister let go of that thought forgive yourself for the mistake you made and move on with your life.

Mistake should not bring us down but shape us, if we forgive ourselves, learn from the mistake, apply the correction and move on.

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